Welcome. This is a place to know more and empower yourself through your difficult experience with your sibling.
The mountain. Such a great metaphor. There can be a sense of intimidation when we are at its feet. It can almost feel insurmountable. And yet, once we climb, and our vantage point changes, we realize that when we get to the top, we have a grand bird’s eye view of the world. This is what I aim for this website to be. A journey up the mountain, to greater heights, so that our seemingly immovable problems can be under our feet, and much smaller, in actuality. Perspective is everything.
Every now and then, the question invariably comes up. We become more knowledgeable about our sibling estrangement, recognize the traps and pitfalls, and start to ask “how do I know I’m getting better?” It’s a perfectly valid question. As with anything, there can never be a complete and final mastery on any given subject. SoContinue reading “Indicators of success and Sibling Estrangement”
Maintaining or completely cutting off ties with a sibling is perhaps one of the biggest questions we can attempt to answer. It is not always an easy decision to make, and can sometimes feel counter-intuitive. Such a choice doesn’t come lightly, and can be due to a series of dehumanising and demeaning gestures that buildContinue reading “Should I go No Contact with my sibling?”
It’s often mentioned that we should forgive. Everywhere we go, we are told to turn the other cheek. That is especially true in family settings. Certain family members may well feel awkward with the idea that their offspring don’t get along with each other. So much so that undue pressure can be put on usContinue reading “Weaponizing Forgiveness”
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