
Welcome. This is a place to know more and empower yourself through your difficult experience with your sibling.
The mountain. Such a great metaphor. There can be a sense of intimidation when we are at its feet. It can almost feel insurmountable. And yet, once we climb, and our vantage point changes, we realize that when we get to the top, we have a grand bird’s eye view of the world. This is what I aim for this website to be. A journey up the mountain, to greater heights, so that our seemingly immovable problems can be under our feet, and much smaller, in actuality. Perspective is everything.
Recent Articles
When Hurt Becomes Certainty: Understanding Psychological Rigidity in Sibling Estrangement
A friend pointed out to me that she chooses not to hold grudges. Asking her why, she said to me that it takes an inordinate amount of energy in doing so. This got me thinking about how we differ from our sibling-s when it comes to fluidity versus rigidity in patterns in thinking. And how…
When Rejection Doesn’t End With Your Sibling
Once we go through the experience of sibling estrangement, we are forever changed. It starts to affect us not only in how we see ourselves, but in our relationships with others as well. The feeling of rejection that we may have experienced from our sibling is a hurtful feeling that can carry into other relationships.…
Empathetic Approaches to Sibling Estrangement: Reclaim Your Identity
In our quest to understand the underpinnings of sibling estrangement, there is an increasing risk for those who are empathic, which is who most of us are. That risk is to stay too long with a hopeless situation in our bid to understand. Here, we will talk more about what that looks like, and how…
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